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Mama Selia’s Teachings Still Shape Family Life — Dr. Osahon Ukponmwan
By Ikhili Ebalu, Benin city
The family of the late Deaconess Mrs. Selia Ukponmwan (née Giwa-Osagie) says her teachings and lifestyle continue to shape family life, fifteen years after her passing.
Speaking on behalf of the family, Dr. Osahon Ukponmwan said Mama Selia’s influence remains evident in the family’s values, relationships and collective decisions.
“She taught us love by living it and faith by practising it,” Dr. Ukponmwan said. “Though she is no longer physically present, her values remain deeply rooted in our lives.”
According to him, Mama Selia placed strong emphasis on unity, respect for elders and compassion for others. She believed that character mattered more than status and that service to humanity was a core expression of faith.
Dr. Ukponmwan described the late matriarch as a woman who corrected with wisdom, encouraged with patience and prayed without ceasing. He said her lifestyle remains a reference point for the family, especially in moments requiring guidance and discernment.
He noted that Mama Selia’s teachings were not delivered through long sermons but through consistent example, adding that this was why her lessons have endured over the years.
The family representative said the 15th anniversary offers an opportunity for the family to reflect on the strong foundation Mama Selia laid and to recommit themselves to preserving her legacy.
He expressed gratitude to extended family members, friends and church associates who have continued to honour Mama Selia’s memory and stand with the family since her passing.
Dr. Ukponmwan said the remembrance is not about the pain of loss, but about celebrating a life that continues to inspire faith, unity and love across generations